The greatest gift anyone could give me would be themselves. Show me who you genuinly are just by being who you truly are,even when there is no one watching 🫠. There is no need to try to relate for the sake of making a ‘new friend’ or to _{keep an old one at that}. You will not always mesh with everyone who seems relatable.Even if you’ve related to them for years prior. Sh* changes & that’s life🤷🏾‍♀️. It helps to take folks at face value🫥. I’ve gotten past trying to figure ^{(new people)}out & trust people to be themselves. Only you will know when you’ve seen enough to determine their place with you – if any. No assumptions or insinuations. Move off the facts that youve accuried while allowing them to just be. We never know the intentions of others we me & only time will tell.

BUT if mi spirit just _{^{nuh tek yuh}}, a just dat we a work wid.😉 🇯🇲

Daily writing prompt

Are you a good judge of character?

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Absolutley. It’s mind blowing how good I am most times. I never go into any enviornment intending on ‘reading’ or ‘judging’ anyones character; it just silently comes to me🤷🏾‍♀️. I truly believe in letting people live and be themselves. The truth lies exactly where they are authentic.In many instances, I can’t ignore or avoid what is revealed to me about a persons character ^{even if I try to}. Can’t unsee it even if I try & I consider it my warning to proceed with caution ⚠️… OR not proceed at all🛑. This gift had guided me through many failed almost _friendsihps . Of course with age, experience & wisdom it only gets better.. & safer for my nervous system.🧚🏾‍♀️

Daily writing prompt

Is your life today what you pictured a year ago?

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No, it’s wayyyyyyy better🤯. Don’t really desire to divulge what I thought it would look like a year ago, that would be an insult to the current space i’m in. Really making your faith bigger than your fears. Ripping off band-aids🩹 and sh*t. I wouldn’t do it any other way other than _{the way that got me here.}🤷🏾‍♀️ There’s been some chaos but not enough to make me dread the ride. It just seems like the grass is greener wherever i’m at.💐

Forgiveness. Forgiving was the hardest decision I’ve ever had to make. Over the years i’ve definetly learned that forgiveness is more for myself and less about the other person. People are always going to ‘people’,which I just don’t always have time for that sh** to be honest🫠. Bigger fish to fry and I just can’t sit and ponder on why folks make the decisions and show up the way they do. ^{I am only responsible for ME and how I show up.} This fairy has never been jealous, bitter, or envious of anyone I’ve ever known long term or just met🤷🏾‍♀️.Weird. Holding grudges take way too much of MY peace so, just go to hell and dance by yourself there✌🏾. As for me, I forgive you and probably don’t want anything to do with you. My peace is the priority here babe.

Forgiving used to be soooooo damn hard because I would always wonder why would they do that to me & what I done to deserve it. _{Experiences like these were what helped me on my ‘self awareness’ journey.} Eventually learning that most times others behaviors are more about them and less of you – It became so much easier to forgive. Let them figure that out. I’ll figure me out – and in order to do that, I needed to forgive. Thanks for coming to my Terry Talk. LOL.

• ^{When others can’t mind their own business. 4ever in others personals..Y’all don’t got no business? this kind of idle & _nuff is unacceptable. Read a book} informer📖
• Unsolicited lies from anyone. WTF? Tsidgaf .🤥
• The loudest person in any room🙉, lol SHHHHHH.. .Inside voices please!!🤫

Authenticity.

I’d hope to give the first impression that ‘she’s authentic’ from EVERY aspect possible since that’s genuinely how I show up💖. She is ^{to the point & direct}. I belive it is important to be your most authentic self everywhere you go; regardless of the room you are in,It could be the laundry room LOL! That’s the only way other people are able to choose if they prefer to stick around or hit the road JACK!🐇🥕 .. & NO, that doesn’t mean to shrink to the size or comfortability of the room it means: Articulate & Annunciate, make your Yes’s and No’s _{CRYSTAL CLEAR}. Leave room for compromise within your morals & values (OR NOT , Your choice🤷🏾‍♀️). Stay true to your boundaries within reason. Dress how you feel for the occassion & PUT THAT SHIT ON.👗

Authenticity is when you know who you are & choose to confidently show up that way every single time. What first impression do you want to give people?🤔

Do lazy days make you feel rested or unproductive? ʚїɞ

Personally, there is no such thing as an ‘unproductive’ lazy day. In fact, I feel they are the MOST productive for myself. They allow me to rest, reset and reconnect for what’s next. Even if it is just a day. We are just simply not meant to produce 24/7🤷🏿‍♀️. It’s your prerogative if that’s what you choose – DO YOU, _{but as for me hunnie; the device is on do not disturb. ^{I will ge back to all once this is over but as for now,}} this queen is ‘lazily’ taking care of herself.💖