In general, women sure do ‘feel’ a whole lot more in than our male counterparts . Going through the motions while continuing to have unfavorable experiences is just not an option. What specifically do you want from me so I can directly tell you ‘NO’, now’ 😌. We take a seat, watch and decide, This shit feels like trash & I just don’t want to prolong whatever the fu*k this is. No anger, or frustration just done with handling things and people because ‘I know how’. Fu***kkkk that,I don’t want to and I’m not going to.

If I am not pleased with the happenings around me, something has got to change whether it be behavior or access to me🤷🏾‍♀️. My time and personal space are precious & i’ve become defensive in efforts to keep my peace. I’ve intentionally done so much work to create the space that i’m in – and too many hands in the pot never proceeds well. Expecially with a heart like mine, firm boundaries must exist🧚🏾‍♀️

Be okay with being uncomfortable in the intrim you’re sheding all the bullsh*t that you’ve accepted because ‘you knew how’🛑. Silence for me, means internal shifts – usually unfavorable to most on the receiving end. It doesn’t come with any final explanation or consideration outside of self. I’ve already decided and delt with what I need to come to this decision. Talk about transparency! You are the main character in your story & no one should write it for you. You hire and fire accordingly babe, FUCK THEM & FUCK THAAAAT🥂.