Forgiveness. Forgiving was the hardest decision I’ve ever had to make. Over the years i’ve definetly learned that forgiveness is more for myself and less about the other person. People are always going to ‘people’,which I just don’t always have time for that sh** to be honest🫠. Bigger fish to fry and I just can’t sit and ponder on why folks make the decisions and show up the way they do. I am only responsible for ME and how I show up. This fairy has never been jealous, bitter, or envious of anyone I’ve ever known long term or just met🤷🏾♀️.Weird. Holding grudges take way too much of MY peace so, just go to hell and dance by yourself there✌🏾. As for me, I forgive you and probably don’t want anything to do with you. My peace is the priority here babe.
Forgiving used to be soooooo damn hard because I would always wonder why would they do that to me & what I done to deserve it. Experiences like these were what helped me on my ‘self awareness’ journey. Eventually learning that most times others behaviors are more about them and less of you – It became so much easier to forgive. Let them figure that out. I’ll figure me out – and in order to do that, I needed to forgive. Thanks for coming to my Terry Talk. LOL.

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