We say and hear over and over “closed mouths don’t get fed” and honey; TRUER words have not been spoken since!

Like many people I know, I come from a “ be seen & not heard” upbringing that I have applied it subconsciously to areas and circumstances that were ineffective as FUCKKKKKK . It worked against me. In hindsight it was SO obvious, I just had a different perspective at the time.🤷🏾‍♀️ There are soooooo many things that I have been experiencing as of recent & are new to me these days. I have learned to trust my instincts based on how my body responds AT THAT TIME.

If it makes me uncomfortable, I do what I need to to in response. How do you expect friends to know that you’re in need? How do you expect people to know that you ‘respectfully disagree’? The people are around you {professional or personal} aren’t necessarily mind readers . It’s kinda unfair to assume that people int your life should/need to check in with YOU. YOU’RE GONNA NEED TO SPEAK THE F**K – not matter how justified we believe our thoughts and feelings are.

Every one has enough that they take on. With that being said – it’ content week and I got some stuffffff I’m ready to share with ya’ll so- I would love for you guys to subscribe, comment and interact with these posts. -See what I did there? Asking for the support that I would appreciate from you all 🥰. I’ll be including a Q & A section so stay tuned for that. – Thank you ^{Theefairygodmother}🧚🏾‍♀️